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Blood is thicker….

What an incredibly crazy week it has been.

The important things of life come into focus when you stand in the emergency room and look into the eyes of someone you love dearly and see a look of fear that you’ve never seen in them before; or when you see an elderly man smile through his tears as he sits in ICU recovering from an open heart surgery he probably didn’t think he would make it through; or when you pray with someone who is having cancer removed and they have no idea what the prognosis will be when they wake up in recovery; or when you watch one of your closest friends walk through uncertain waters as he and his wife face a constant barrage of disappointing news but yet remain faithful; or when you are hundreds of miles from family as they navigate very uncertain times and you’re not there to put your arm around them so they can physically feel your love and presence.

Through all of this and more, God has certainly reminded me of a lot of things. He reminded me that throughout the week we have the opportunity and obligation to show the love of Christ to hurting people.

This week I read Romans 12:10, “Love one another with brotherly affection…” As I read that verse I was reminded that Paul was writing to the Christians who were scattered all over Rome and were facing some uncertain days. In the midst of trials, they needed to unite in brotherly love. The old saying, “blood is thicker than water,” came to mind as I was thinking about what brotherly love felt like. I decided to research the old saying and I found that it has changed meanings over the years. Originally it meant, “the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.” Some interpreted it to mean that the loyalty of someone you have fought with in battle is more binding than someone with whom you shared the same womb.

In terms of our Christian relationships, this certainly holds true because of the bond we have through the blood of Jesus. We feel this strong connection when we lock arms in battle or when we display the love of Christ toward someone who is hurting.

I’m so thankful for my biological family who has stuck together through some of the most difficult trials that a family will ever face. I’m equally thankful for a church family who wraps their arms around one another during the most trying times of life. The blood of Jesus is thicker than water and his blood is what binds a church family together. As we do battle against an enemy who is not flesh and blood, remember that he wants to destroy everything loving and good about a church family by making unimportant things our focus so we have less energy and desire to love the way Christ loves.

“Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins..” 1 Peter 4:8

Pastor Marty

How ‘Bout Them Cowboys!

In the spirit of full disclosure I am a die-hard Dallas Cowboys fan!

With that being said, whether you like them or not, they have defied most expectations people had for them coming into this season. I didn’t hear one person say that the Cowboys would have a winning season much less make the playoffs. Even the man who writes the checks (whom I am not a big fan of but he’s the billionaire and he can do what he wants with his team) didn’t think the team could win over 5 or 6 games at best.

However, the Cowboys went undefeated on the road and ended the season with a 12-4 record. And yesterday they did something that has the internet and social media buzzing. (I’m not sure which is more enjoyable for me, watching the Cowboys win or the haters hate and blame the refs for the Cowboys win). They won their first playoff game since 2009 and that makes me happy. They may go to Green Bay next week and get demolished by Aaron Rogers and the Packers offense but they have already beat the odds and driven their haters crazy with all the wins they had this season. Someone convinced them that they could win and do what seemed impossible…and they have.

Satan would love to convince us that we can’t come out victorious on the other side of the seasons of life but here are few lessons that we can learn from the Cowboys, whether you like them or not.

1. Don’t let last year’s failures keep you from believing that you can have victory this year. Instead, believe in the one who lives in you. Paul wrote to the church of Philippi, “I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” (Philippians 4:13) Success for the Christian does not come from believing in ourselves but in trusting Christ who lives in us.

2. Finish the Fight! The Cowboys have latched onto that phrase and have let it motivate them to win. You may face trials that are more than you can handle and you may face defeat that will put you on your knees. But God is greater than any opponent we face and He will bring us to victory. We have to Finish the Fight just as Paul wrote to Timothy, “I have fought the good fight of faith, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” (2 Timothy 4:7)

3. Play as a team. The Dallas defense does not have a great player on it but they have won because they worked together as a team. You and I are on a team (1 Corinthians 12:27). Our team is the church and collectively we are better, stronger, and wiser than we are individually.

4. Finally, face each day with the end in mind. All players will tell you they practice and work to beat the next opponent but they all have the end in mind. We face today’s trials the same way. The difference for us is that we already have the victory (1 Corinthians 15:57).

How ’bout them Cowboys!

Pastor Marty

P.S. Heres a good Finish the Fight Video for you to enjoy or not!

http://www.dallascowboys.com/video/2014/12/14/finishthefight

Happy New Year!

As we approach 2015 here are a few thoughts:

1. Every year has it’s high points and low points and 2014 is no exception. The high points were opportunities for us to celebrate the goodness of God and the low points were opportunities for us to trust the goodness of God. He is the God of the good times and the bad times and he is always worthy of our trust and worship.

2. Every new year is another opportunity to look back so we can learn and look ahead to dream. I always ask myself what I did that was good and right and what I did that should not be repeated ( there are plenty of those). This always makes for a good conversation with myself. If we continue to do what we’ve always done we will continue to get the results we’ve always got.

3. Every year is an opportunity to do more for the kingdom of God. I want to learn more, pray more, give more, and go more in order to fulfill more of the purposes God has for my life.

As a church family, let’s lock arms and plow forward so we can be the church God has called us to be in this coming year.

“Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.” (‭Philippians‬ ‭3‬:‭13-14‬ ESV)

Happy New Year!

Pastor Marty

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